I am, by no stretch of the imagination, a singer. Other than congregational singing or while working alone in my shop, I don’t do much singing and don’t really enjoy it like I used to. People would more likely pay me not to sing, yet, for twenty years, my wife (Babe) and I sang in the church choir. How did that come to be? How is it that, I, a closet caterwauler, came to be a member of the adult choir at church for over twenty years. Well, as Paul Harvey would put it, “And now for the rest of the story.”
Scarred for Life
I grew up in a small Free Will Baptist church in Wilson, North Carolina. Somewhere around the age of 13, you know, right about the time a young lad’s voice begins to take on a mind of its own, my mother was director of the youth choir. For this reason, singing in the youth choir was not an option which was offered to me. My participation was mandatory in spite of my loud and vociferous protests. I screamed and shouted every Sunday morning but not because I was in the spirit. To make matters worse, the choir was woefully short of male voices and mine was one of only three, the other two being two to three years my junior. Singing melody in the key of G (for girl) made me sound more like a reject from the Vienna Boys Choir or like someone had just sat on a pig. I absolutely hated that experience and was sure I had been scarred for life by this forced humiliation. I would rather have licked shopping cart handles at the Piggly Wiggly than sing in the choir.
NATC Millington
Fast forward to 1975 and I was in the Coast Guard attending a six-month-long school at the naval air station training center in Millington, Tennessee, just a few miles north of Memphis. Babe was pregnant with our first child at the time. Every Monday evening, students were required to “field day” the barracks. That meant giving it a thorough cleaning from stem to stern. I was required to stay on base and help with the cleaning even though I didn’t live in the barracks. Babe and I were living in an apartment off base, and I was moderately resentful over the fact I was required to participate in this extra duty which usually took us about two hours. Oh, I didn’t mind helping with the cleaning. These were my fellow students. My shipmates. My friends. The problem I had with the experience was a junior officer, Ensign Cohen, who was usually assigned as the officer of the day (OOD or simply OD). Ensign Cohen, fresh out of officer training suffered from a severe case of Napolean syndrome because of his five-foot six or so stature. He was far from pleasant to enlisted men and most folks tried hard to avoid him. There was also a chief boatswain’s mate, (Chief Whorton) who was the immediate overseer of the cleaning. The chief had a few years in service and was much easier to get along with.
I could have opted out of barracks duty if I had chosen to. Students who volunteered to sing in the choir at the base chapel were not required to clean the barracks. I had chosen cleaning duty for two reasons. First, I still harbored the trauma of my youth and my experience with the youth choir. Second, as I said, to help my friends.
Who’s in Charge Here?
One such friend, Van, about seven years older than me, shared the same surname as me. One particular evening, Ensign Cohen was not around and Chief Whorton had stepped away from the barracks for some reason. Knowing he was older than all the other students, the chief instructed Van to sit in the OD’s office and man the phones while he (the chief) stepped out. No sooner had the chief left the building than the phone rang. Van dutifully answered.
“Is this Ensign Cohen?” asked the caller.
“No, this is Petty Officer Taylor.” Van replied.
“Well, this is Commander Harrison, where is the OD?” the caller asked.
“I don’t know. He stepped out.” Van informed him.
“Then let me speak to Chief Whorton.” demanded the caller.
“He’s not here either.” Van informed him having twice violated military etiquette by not addressing the caller as “sir.” He likely would have gotten away with that in the fleet but on a training base such as Millington, there was a clear distinction between officer and enlisted and the arrogance of some of the officers and a few officers’ wives bordered on absurd. As a result, Commander Harrison was growing a bit irate.
“I’d like to speak to someone with a little authority!” Harrison bellowed tersely. Unfazed, Van replied, “Well, I’ve got about as little authority as anybody. Won’t I do?” The phone call came to an abrupt end when Commander Harrison slammed the phone down.
It wasn’t long after that when Ensign Cohen showed up. His short-haired head, looking more like a pimple with ears, was beet-red because he had just gotten a butt-chewing from Commander Harrison over the phone incident. I was the first one he saw when he walked onto the quarterdeck (the foyer). Seeing Taylor stenciled on my shirt, he blurted, “Petty Officer Taylor, follow me!” He led me into his office and began to rip me a new one. He began with some common four-letter words and worked his way all the way up to a few seven-letter gems. He called me words I had never heard before. I began to suspect he was so angry that he had run out of things to call me and was making up words just so he could keep going. I immediately realized there was a mix-up, but I chose not to interrupt him. Rather, with deep satisfaction and a hidden smile, I let him go on. It was as if I was not only handing him a shovel, but I was also helping him dig a deeper hole. He finally reached a point where he was running out of words and breath, so with great pleasure, I took the opportunity to tell him he had the wrong Taylor. Don’t choke over those crow feathers, ensign!
Babe and I Join the Choir
Well, it was after this exchange I decided that while they were my friends, they could clean their own pigsty. I didn’t have to put up with that kind of behavior. I went home and asked Babe if she would like to join the choir at the base chapel. She agreed so the following Wednesday night we showed up at choir practice.
The choir director asked me what part I sang. Part? What is this part of which you speak? I usually sing the whole song, not just part of it. Hearing my voice, he seated me with the bases and baritones. It was that night I began to learn about harmony. Listening to the bass voices around me I began to figure out how to sing bass. I liked it. It didn’t squeak!
The experience at the base chapel was a good one for both Babe and me and we would later join the choir after I got out of the Coast Guard and would continue as members for the next twenty years.
“And that’” as Paul Harvey would say, “is the rest of the story.”